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Almost 40

Who said you’ve got to have your shit together by a certain age?


Definitely not Raj Pander.


She's Almost a promising young woman (she got told she was too old for a job). Almost a wifey for lifey (she’s a divorcee - according to Indian Matchmaking/Sima Aunty that makes her “disadvantaged”). And she was almost 40 when she started this podcast.


Single. Living at home with her parents. Still watching TV shows made for teens. Still swearing on work calls. Still has an unhealthy obsession with pop culture. She’s getting older, but not necessarily wiser (s/o to Taylor Swift for relatable lyrics). 


Raj celebrated a milestone birthday (her 40th) not so long ago, so we've got a thing for milestones on this podcast - not just the ones we associate with age/patriarchal/societal norms though. On the Milestone episodes, Raj and her guests get into 3 milestones from their lives, discussing their expectations of them vs the reality. And on the Almost Assessments, guests take an almost medical assessment run by a “nurse” who asks the most annoying/offensive questions women get asked on a regular basis, leading to an unpredictable conversation based on their answers. On the solo episodes, Raj does a deep dive into a trending topic (eg women being pitted against each other at the Oscars a la Demi Moore and Mikey Madison) or something that's been on her mind (banning people from her funeral a la Shannon Doherty) with a little help from listeners and friends...


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xoxo


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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
70 minutes
Episodes
47
Years Active
2024 - 2025
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Almost A Match

Almost A Match

Raj has decided to leave dating apps for good, so she recorded this episode as evidence. This means if you ever see her on a dating app again you should report her directly to almost40thepodcast@gmai…

01:08:02  |   Thu 11 Sep 2025
Almost An Adult: Saima

Almost An Adult: Saima

Soft Life Queen, Content Creator and Forty-Something Saima gets into why she thought having a nose job at 23 would change her life, the assumptions of what life looks like when living with parents, d…
01:18:01  |   Thu 04 Sep 2025
Almost A Materialist

Almost A Materialist

Carrie Bradshaw’s solo lunch, Celine Song’s Materialists, and Love Is Blind have Raj questioning everything—dating, matchmakers, and whether love can actually be blind (spoiler: she thinks it can). …
01:27:52  |   Sat 30 Aug 2025
Almost Assessment: Nicole Ocran

Almost Assessment: Nicole Ocran

Podcaster, Writer +Certified Lovergirl Nicole Ocran checks in with the Nurse for an Almost Assessment (a faux medical check up where patients are asked the most annoying/offensive things women are as…
01:19:21  |   Thu 21 Aug 2025
Almost Always Unbothered: Amrita Singh

Almost Always Unbothered: Amrita Singh

Private Stylist, Fashion Editor and former Southall Girl Amrita Singh gets into how moving to Dubai at 30 led to a healing journey, why fashion doesn't know what to do when it comes to Brown women, …
01:12:47  |   Thu 14 Aug 2025
Almost Cuntry

Almost Cuntry

Raj was triggered by Beyoncé slander on TikTok, where a brown male said Queen B should stay in her lane and go back to making R'n'B. So this is a Cowboy Carter special. Raj takes it back to the origi…
01:17:35  |   Fri 08 Aug 2025
Almost Satisfied: Sam Parker

Almost Satisfied: Sam Parker

Author, Journalist and New Dad Sam Parker gets into why he thought he would become a literary sensation after writing his first novel at 30 (he published his first book Good Anger at 40), how he lear…
01:24:41  |   Fri 08 Aug 2025
Almost Assessment: Jackie Adedeji

Almost Assessment: Jackie Adedeji

Presenter + Founder of The Big Bosom Brunch, Jackie Adedeji checks in with the Nurse for an Almost Assessment (a faux medical check up where guests are asked the most annoying/offensive questions wom…
01:11:12  |   Fri 08 Aug 2025
Almost A Happy Birthday

Almost A Happy Birthday

When Taylor Swift said "I'm so depressed I act like it's my birthday everyday" what the helly did she mean? Raj just turned 41 and she's decided to dive deep into the mystery of those lyrics while tr…
01:12:41  |   Sat 21 Jun 2025
Almost Brown: Isabella Silvers

Almost Brown: Isabella Silvers

Journalist, Founder of Mixed Messages and Freelancer Isabella Silvers gets into why she thought she would have hit her career goals at 30 (and what she did when she didn't), interviewing her celebrit…
01:15:32  |   Fri 16 May 2025
Almost Assessment: Leanne Alie

Almost Assessment: Leanne Alie

Podcast Comissioner, Producer + Presenter, Leanne Alie checks in with the Nurse for an Almost Assessment (an almost medical check up where guests are asked the most annoying/offensive questions women…
01:12:38  |   Thu 01 May 2025
Almost Resting In Peace

Almost Resting In Peace

Do you guys ever think about dying? After re-watching Barbie and contemplating Barbie Margot's dancefloor stopping question, Raj started thinking about Shannon Doherty's funeral block list again and …
01:23:40  |   Fri 18 Apr 2025
Almost Mature: Bela Shah

Almost Mature: Bela Shah

Broadcaster, Sky Sports News Presenter and Former Lawyer Bela Shah gets into changing career at 29, being a "mature" student, getting a big break at Channel 5 that led to her current dream role, the …
01:10:25  |   Wed 26 Mar 2025
Almost Assessment: Hope Flynn

Almost Assessment: Hope Flynn

Community Founder, Business Lecturer + Relationship Expert, Hope Flynn checks in with the Nurse for an Almost Assessment (an almost medical check up where women are asked the most annoying/offensive …
01:03:08  |   Mon 17 Mar 2025
Almost A Win

Almost A Win

This one is an Oscars debrief + Millie Bobby Brown calling out her trolls mash up! Raj was dazed and confused when she saw articles about Mikey Madison's Best Actress win titled with "And the Oscar g…
01:33:38  |   Sun 09 Mar 2025
Almost Bridget Jones

Almost Bridget Jones

The 4th instalment of the Bridget Jones movies released on Galentines/Valentines so Raj had to get into a Galentines/Valentines debrief featuring tales of how everyone celebrated (if they did - one p…
01:12:03  |   Mon 24 Feb 2025
Almost Assessment: Martha Lucia

Almost Assessment: Martha Lucia

Podcaster Martha Lucia checks in with the Nurse for an Almost Assessment (an almost medical assessment where women are asked the most annoying/offensive questions they get asked on a regular basis). …
00:57:44  |   Fri 07 Feb 2025
Almost There: Parle Patel

Almost There: Parle Patel

Creator, Actor, Producer (not gonna list everything else he does because we will be here all day), Parle Patel gets into how he got over having yesmanitis (when you say YES to everything anyone asks …
01:07:52  |   Fri 31 Jan 2025
Almost An Aunty

Almost An Aunty

Bollywood legend Zeenat Aman posted an image of herself wearing a sweatshirt with "Aunty" sprawled across it, loud and proud asking "which genius decided Aunty is a derogatory term?" So this episode …
00:54:06  |   Sat 25 Jan 2025
Almost Assessment: Rena Annobil

Almost Assessment: Rena Annobil

Presenter, Producer and Writer, Rena Annobil checks in with the Nurse for an Almost Assessment (an almost medical assessment based on the most annoying/offensive questions women are asked on a regula…
00:57:07  |   Thu 16 Jan 2025
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