Breaking Free from “I’m Not Enough”: A Blueprint for Self-Discovery with Jason Smith

Author: Chrissy May
Published: Thu 28 Aug 2025
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What if the stories you’ve carried your whole life were never really yours to begin with? In this episode, I sit down with Jason Smith, host of The Blueprint Podcast. Jason shares how years on the frontlines, reading the notes people left behind, and witnessing life’s most fragile moments, forced him to confront his own deeply rooted beliefs of “not enoughness”. We also talk about how childhood struggles and unhealed wounds follow us into adulthood, what burnout and emotional disconnection taught him, and the pivotal moment that cracked him open to transformation. Tune in for practices that help you reclaim your life, stretch your capacity for uncertainty, and the tools to reconnect with your truest selves.

HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 Meet Jason Smith, host of The Blueprint Podcast.

07:00 How childhood struggles can create a hidden “not enough” belief.

12:00 The emotional weight of working crime scenes and carrying other people’s final stories.

17:30 The pivotal injury that forced Jason to leave policing.

25:15 How distorted thoughts and stories keep us from seeing reality.

31:45 Can we truly feel gratitude in the hardest seasons, or only in hindsight?

37:15 Inflated followers and fake downloads are killing credibility.

40:45 A breathwork practice to reset in stressful moments.

46:30 The heartbreaking difference between men’s and women’s last notes.

51:00 Do our souls call us into the life experiences we’re meant to have?

53:00 The 21 Day Self-Love Challenge to rebuild trust in yourself.