S4E11: Navigating Family Dynamics: A Story of Elder Exploitation | Debora Pokallus

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Summary

Deborah Pocalas shares her harrowing experience of elder exploitation involving her father, revealing the complexities of family dynamics, betrayal, and the emotional toll of caregiving. She discusses the discovery of theft by a sibling, the impact of medical misdiagnosis, and the challenges of navigating guardianship. Throughout the conversation, Deborah emphasizes the importance of documentation, recognizing red flags, and finding support during difficult times. Her story serves as a cautionary tale for caregivers and families dealing with similar situations.
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Takeaways

• Elder exploitation can occur within families, often unnoticed.
• Documentation is crucial in cases of elder abuse.
• Isolation tactics can be used to control elderly individuals.
• Medical misdiagnosis can severely impact care options.
• Guardianship processes can be negotiated for better outcomes.
• Recognizing red flags early can help prevent exploitation.
• Emotional support systems are vital for caregivers.
• Family dynamics can complicate caregiving situations.
• Spending quality time with loved ones is invaluable.
• Resentment can hinder personal healing and growth.

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About the Guest

Debora Pokallus is a loving daughter with no medical background who was thrust into an unimaginable situation and tried her best to help her father survive and thrive. She is on a mission to share her story of elder exploitation to help other families navigate various dynamics. 

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