S4E07: "Boomers Booming": 10 Commandments for Seniors | H. Frances Reaves, Esq.

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Summary

In this episode of the Aging Together podcast, host Dr. Patel speaks with elder law attorney H. Frances Reeves about her journey as a caregiver for her parents, the challenges of navigating the medical industrial complex, and her new book, 'Boomers Booming: How to Thrive After 65 and Have Good Sex.' Frances shares her insights on aging, the importance of proactive planning, and her ten commandments for thriving in later life. The conversation emphasizes the need to challenge stereotypes about aging and the significance of mindset in preparing for the future.

Takeaways

• Frances Reeves shares her caregiving journey for her parents.
• The medical industrial complex complicates elder care decisions.
• Writing a book requires discipline and commitment.
• Living life your way is essential after 65.
• Staying relevant is crucial for older adults.
• Death is inevitable; planning is essential.
• Sickness is often temporary, and laughter is important.
• Proactive planning can ease the burden on loved ones.
• Celebrating life should happen while you're alive.
• Forgiveness is a key aspect of aging gracefully.

About the Guest

Frances is the author of Boomers Booming: How to Thrive After Sixty-Five and Have Good Sex, inspired by caring for her parents, Hal and Charlotte, in their final years. Witnessing the “senior industrial complex” overlook them, she became an advocate for elders, while celebrating their zest for life, like skydiving on her mother’s 80th birthday.

Born in Belem, Brazil, Frances grew up across Libya, the Philippines, Colombia, Argentina, Peru, and Singapore before earning her degree from Texas Christian University. Her career began as Director of International Marketing for the Louisiana World Exposition, followed by a law degree from the University of Miami. Fluent in Spanish and conversant in Portuguese, she has interviewed world leaders including Margaret Thatcher, Madeleine Albright, and Gloria Steinem, and is in the Maryland Women’s Hall of Fame.

Today, Frances is Managing Attorney of her Elder Law Firm, specializing in estate planning, Medicaid planning, and advocacy against elder exploitation. She writes bi-monthly columns for Miami Community News and The Islander News, hosts a monthly elder-focused video blog, and has interviewed notable figures from Emmy-winning journalists to world champions. Her work continues to empower older adults and their families with knowledge, dignity, and voice.

• www.parentyourparents.com
• LinkedIn: H Frances Reaves, Esq. | Parent Your Parents
• Facebook: H Frances Reaves | Parent Your Parents USA

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