According To B
According to B is your go-to podcast for real talk with women who are ditching the rulebook and doing life their way. Hosted by Bokang Lehlokoe, it’s all about the messy middles, quiet wins, and bold moves behind the scenes. We’re not here for highlight reels - we’re here for who you’re becoming. Expect raw convos, big laughs, deep feels, and a reminder that living boldly beats living perfectly, every single time.
- Update frequency
- every 16 days
- Average duration
- 54 minutes
- Episodes
- 15
- Years Active
- 2023 - 2025
Unemployed in South Africa FOR YEARS to Living my Dream Life in Korea ft. Litha Meyile-Choi
In this episode of According to B, I sit down with Litha Meyile Choi—a South African-born content creator and influencer now based in South Korea—who shares her incredible story of starting over, bol…
What they DON'T tell you about Motherhood: Changes to Bodies, Relationships & more w/ Friendship Frequency
In this week's episode of According To B, I sit down with Stephanie Ndlovu and Petronella Tshuma — actresses, mothers, storytellers, and real ones.
We’re talking about motherhood — the parts we don’t …
Nonhle Thema on Losing It All and Finding Herself Again
In this week's episode of According To B, I sit down with the iconic Nonhle Thema—a woman whose name is etched into the early fabric of South African pop culture.
In this raw and powerful conversation…
Why I really quit YouTube: A life changing diagnosis | Life Update
I wasn’t sure I’d share this part of my story — I was really tempted to go straight into the interviews and conversations for the new season. But then I remembered the kind of space I’ve always wante…
Everything I Know About Love
Life can get so hectic, especially in adulthood, that we sometimes forget to slow down and truly connect with those who matter most. In this episode, I'm joined by Kim & Gugu from Ginologist, for a h…
Living At Home as an Adult w/ Tshegetso Moepi
Checking into Hotel Mom and Dad?
Whether you’re moving back in with your parents or you never left the bird’s nest, living at home as an adult can be a wild ride. Maybe you need to save some cash, …
A Seat at My Table: The Keys to Healthy & Meaningful Friendships
Friendship in adulthood can be challenging to navigate but also incredibly special to experience and both of those things have been true for me. I have grown, changed and experienced so much love thr…
Everything Has Changed, Including Me. The Last Year of My Twenties!
Okay so a lot is changing… Including me! Y’all, its been way too long – 9 months to be exact - since we last chatted but According to B is officially BACK and needless to say we have a lot to catch u…
Dating with Intention & Design your Love Life w/ Thandi Gama
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In this week's episode I sit down with Thandi Gama to talk about intentional dating. Thandi shares what her dating experience has been like thus far and what intentional dating means to he…
The reality of following your dreams and living with purpose with Tshegetso Moepi
Loneliness In Your 20s (and beyond) w/ Foyin OG
Get in girls! We’re getting vulnerable and talking about loneliness in the 20’s with Foyin OG aka Foyinla (and yes, she's here to fix our lives)!
✰ ABOUT ✰
In this weeks episode I sit down with Foyi…
Melissa Nayimuli on Miss South Africa 2023, Xenophobia and Learniing to love her Dark Skin
Wear your crowns queens! We’re embracing our beauty and talking Miss SA 2023 with top 5 finalist Melissa Nayimuli! ✰ ABOUT ✰ In this weeks episode I am joined by Miss South Africa 2023 top 5 final…
The Cost of Becoming The Woman of Your Dreams w/ Candice Modiselle | Faith, Healing & The Process
Get in girlies! We’re becoming the women of our dreams!
✰ ABOUT ✰
In this week's episode of According To B, I am joined by creative genius, artist and overall sweetheart Candice Modiselle! Join us …
Adult Friendships w/ Gugulethu Nyatsumba | Outgrowing Friends, Boundaries, Jealousy & Sisterhood
This one is for everyone trying to successfully navigate adult friendships👩❤️💋👩
✰ ABOUT ✰
We’re back for another episode of According To B and my co-host for this one is fellow YouTuber, podcas…
What Rom-Coms Don't Say About Love w/ Shekhinah
Calling all Rom-Com lovers!
✰ ABOUT ✰
The first episode of According To B is here and my co-host for this episode is none other than the nation's songbird Shekhinah! Join us as we talk all about …