A Selfish Endeavor
Drawing motivation from the inspiring journeys of those who have triumphed over adversity.
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 27 minutes
- Episodes
- 12
- Years Active
- 2024 - 2025
Best Friends / Ups and Downs
In this episode, we dive deep into what friendship means to us. Tatsuya opens up about the challenges of connecting as a neurodivergent man. Arthur shares his need for loyalty and someone who would g…
Ami "Nothing Shakes Me" | A Mother’s Journey of Faith, Loss, and Unbreakable Love
In this profoundly moving conversation, Ami shares her extraordinary life story—from growing up in Tokyo as the daughter of a rock star, surviving a near-fatal childhood accident, and finding faith t…
The Power of Discomfort: What Growth Actually Feels Like
Discomfort is the cost of growth. In this episode, we talk about the moments that challenge us most — the ones we choose to step into and the ones forced on us by society, culture, or just the chaos …
A Selfish Endeavor: Exploring Mental Health and Personal Growth
Welcome to "A Selfish Endeavor," a podcast where I dive deep into mental health, personal growth, and the human experience. This isn’t just about me—it’s about being open, honest, and learning from t…
How to Trick a Republican Into Understanding Transgender Identity
In this episode, we take a unique approach to discussing transgender identity—one that might just trick a conservative into understanding it. Tatsuya shares his personal experiences with identity, la…
Social Withdrawal in Japan vs. the West: Hikikomori and Incels
Why are so many young men around the world choosing to withdraw from society? In Japan, they’re called hikikomori—reclusive individuals who shut themselves away, sometimes for years. In the West, we …
Learning Not to Care What People Think | Cross Cultural Talk
Explore the journey of personal growth as we discuss cultural differences, shared experiences, and the power of self-expression. Join us for honest conversations on authenticity, being true to yourse…
I Love How You Put Me Down
In Japan, people apologize too much. In America, not enough. Tatsuya navigates this cultural divide while also getting a crash course in what it was like growing up as a guy in the U.S.—where showing…
Is Your Wife Lucky To Have You?
What started as a lighthearted attempt to boost our own egos as amazing husbands took an unexpected turn when we realized Tatsuya doesn’t quite feel the same way. He opens up about his struggles with…
Do We Need More Identity Labels?
In this episode, we dive deep into the complexity of labels and identity. We explore how the current labels for nationality and ethnicity fall short in capturing our true identities. Together, we que…
Tomeccia "What is Feelings?"
A Selfish Endeavor. Episode 2 “Tomeccia”.
Tomeccia became my therapist two years ago, stepping into my life at one of its lowest points. In just three months, she helped me turn everything around, set…
Arthur "Killing Is An Option"
Arthur and I became acquainted through our wives and children. At first, I thought of him as just another "dad friend" until he began sharing stories about his upbringing and subsequent career path. …