When They Have What You Want: A Conversation on Comparison

This week on 2nd Helpings, Becca and Lori dive into the all-too-familiar trap of comparison, especially as a young adult, when it seems like everyone else is moving faster, further, or ahead of you.

Using the story of Rachel and Leah in Genesis 29–30, they explore how comparison shows up in Scripture and in our own lives today — and how it distorts the truth of our worth, identity, and trust in God’s timing.

Together they talk through:

• How Rachel and Leah’s story mirrors our own striving and insecurity
• What comparison steals from our confidence, joy, and peace
• How to replace “Why not me?” with “Lord, I trust You”
• Why your identity isn’t found in what you lack, but in who He is

📝 Reflection Prompt:
Where are you most tempted to compare right now — and what might God want you to see instead?

🎯 Challenge of the Week:
When you notice yourself comparing, pause and pray this simple prayer:
“God, help me celebrate what You’re doing in others — and trust what You’re doing in me.”

Then reflect on all the ways God has already blessed you.

You don’t need to hustle for God’s love. He’s not holding out on you. He’s writing your story — and it’s good.

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