Is this Really Fair?

In this raw and honest episode, we’re diving into the hard truth about sacrifice in marriage—especially when it feels one-sided. Loving your spouse isn’t always easy, and sometimes it might even feel unfair. So how do you keep showing up when you're exhausted, unappreciated, or just plain frustrated?

We’ll talk about what real sacrifice looks like (hint: it’s not just about giving things up), how to navigate seasons of imbalance, and why a strong marriage isn’t built on keeping score. If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving more than you’re getting, this episode is for you.

Join us as we unpack the struggles, the breakthroughs, and the surprising beauty of sacrificial love in marriage.

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The "Original" Marriage Flippers

Meet the Labradors—Javier and Shannan. Married 33 years, they’ve weathered the highs, lows, and everything in between—and now their mission is simple: to see marriages thrive, not just survive. As sought-after conference speakers, authors, podcast hosts, and creators of 24/7 Marriage Bootcamps—3-day intensives that help couples hit reset—they bring humor, honesty, and hard-won wisdom to every conversation.

Restoring Hope. Redeeming Stories. Rebuilding Strong Marriages.
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