20 Minute Christian Counselor
Each 20-minute episode is rich with valuable guidance, biblically-based insights, and actionable advice, all aimed at helping you navigate life's complexities and deepen your faith. Join Pastor Robb Oram every other week for a refreshing dose of hope, encouragement, and transformative wisdom. Subscribe to the 20 Minute Christian Counselor podcast today and begin your journey towards a more fulfilling and Christ-centered life.
- Update frequency
- every 16 days
- Average duration
- 22 minutes
- Episodes
- 41
- Years Active
- 2023 - 2025
How to Be Free From Being Controlled by Other Peoples' Feelings
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Oftentimes, we let the feelings and reactions of other people have too great an influence on how we think, feel and act. Why? What can I do to change? How can my …
5 Steps to Healthy Confrontation
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Why is confronting someone so difficult?
Should I even address this, or should I just let it go?
How do I confront them in the right way?
What do I do if they don’t …
The Key to Reducing Disappointment, Frustration and Anger in Your Life
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We all experience disappointment, frustration and anger in our lives. But why? Why so much, and so often? Is there anything we can do to reduce, or even eliminate…
What is Healthy Self Respect, Where Does it Come From, and Why Does it Matter?
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Having a healthy sense of self respect is critical- it can impact every area of our lives. In this episode I examine why this is true, reveal unhealthy ways in wh…
4 Steps to Making Wise Decisions
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Making big decisions can often be very challenging. Especially when we realize the choices we make determine the trajectory of our lives. But, we don't have to ma…
How Can I Change My Spouse?
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Are there some things you want to change about your spouse? Have you been trying to change them, and been unsuccessful? Is it even possible to change them? In thi…
How Can I Cope with Being Estranged from a Loved One?
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Broken relationships are painful, and may feel like they can never be restored. In this episode, I provide some practical counsel on how to respond in these diffi…
How Can I Cope with Disappointment?
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Disappointment- we all experience it. Sometimes, it's heartbreaking. How do we cope with it? In this episode, I provide some practical recommendations by challeng…
How Can I Be Happy in an Unhappy Marriage?
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Just because your marriage isn't what you thought it would be, or what you think it should be, or what you'd hoped it might be, doesn't mean you're stuck being un…
How Can I Be Set Free From My Shame?
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Shame is one of the most powerful, influential emotions we can experience. It's also one feeling that's very difficult to admit or discuss. In this episode I defi…
What is “Self Talk?” Do I Do It? How Does It Affect Me? How Can I Change It?
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You might be surprised at how much you "self talk," and how much it affects you. In this episode I explain self talk, demonstrate how it can impact your life, and…
What is Enabling? How Can I Tell if I’m an Enabler? Why Do I Enable? How Can I Stop?
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God calls us as Christ followers to help others. Jesus is our perfect example of this. However, not all "helping" is helpful. In fact, sometimes our helping can a…
Why Can’t I Forgive Myself, Should I Forgive Myself, and If So, How Do I Forgive Myself?
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I've learned that despite the fact the we know God forgives us, many of us struggle to forgive ourselves. What makes this so hard? Is forgiving ourselves even the…
3 Strategies to Improve Intimacy in Marriage
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God designed the marriage relationship to be the most intimate of all. Yet, sometimes we don't feel the closeness and connection we'd like to experience with our …
How is Fear Impacting My Life, and How Do I Deal With It?
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We all have our fears-we may not even be aware of some of them. They're impacting our lives more than we realize, and we tend to try to cope with them in unhelpfu…
Is My Spouse Toxic? And If So, What Can I Do About It?
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Marriage is challenging for all of us, because no spouse is perfect. But, some spouses are extremely difficult- even to the point of being "toxic." In this episod…
Why Am I So Tempted to Do Bad Things, and What Can I Do to Resist Doing Them?
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Temptation is something we all deal with. What makes it so difficult? What can we do to avoid giving in to it? How can God help us? In this episode, I offer some …
Why Do I Feel the Way I Do, Are My Feelings Right or Wrong, and What Do I Do with Them?
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Do you ever feel confused, ashamed, or frustrated about how you feel? Have you ever wondered why you feel a certain way? Are you struggling with how to deal with …
Why Am I Suffering, and How Can I Get Through it?
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Have you been through a tough season of suffering? Are you experiencing significant suffering right now? In this episode, I wrestle with why we suffer, and share …
How Can I Cope with my Loneliness?
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Are you struggling with feelings of loneliness? All of us do. In this episode, I explain how, with God's help, you can not only cope with these feelings, but even…